I’m a thug [read emotionally intelligent and proactively self aware individual]. Thugs don’t make resolutions. They are everyday attempting to review and renew in order to rise from their ashes and reveal and shiny new self [see also Phoenix]. Thugs don’t wait until January 1st. CLEARLY they wait until The 5th! In my defense, I began working on these months ago. I’m sharing with you in the hopes of getting a few accountability partners.
My New Years Thug-olutions (featuring some help from Instagram and a Buzzfeed post I read) are as follows:
1. You owe it to yourself to research your passions. Don’t bury them; unfulfilled and sitting silent in the soul like seeds seeds waiting in dormancy. 
2. Enjoy your own company. Stop linking your enjoyment of experiences to the company of others. Friends can make good times better, you always have the company of your closest friend… You!
3. Get out of your head! Sometimes im so cerebral, it’s like playing chess with people that don’t know they’re in a tournament. Just open your mouth. Tell people what you want/think/need/feel. Those who matter don’t mind, and those that mind don’t matter!
4. Save some money! You’re 25 years old! Have something to show for it!
5. Take care of your body! It’s the vehicle by which you experience this wonderful three dimensional world! Be a good steward!
Drink some water! Go to sleep on time!
6. Talk good to yourself. Make YOU feel good! Flatter the person in the mirror.
7. Take responsibility for your part in relationships that have failed. I don’t mean get stuck in the past, but there are things you can learn from it. You’re not just the victim, you’re also a perpetrator … in part. You allowed that person to enter and remain in your presence. Make a list and act on the top three steps (you don’t know them because they’ll be the things you repeatedly failed to do).
For me they are
a. Ask hard hitting questions that get at the heart of others’ intentions. Friends and loved ones may struggle to find the words, but not hesitate or attempt to deceive.
b. Be happy in/of your self so that arguments and discord in particular relationships don’t make your whole life feel like a failure.
c. Take responsibility for your interactions. Be conscious of how your speech/interaction style affects others and what it says about you. Be honest, I think long-term, think about what you want from that person and your relationship with them.
Happy New Year, lil’ thugs! Go forth and prosper!
Roze Goes. The blogger formerly known as “Not-so-Negative, Nancy”
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